So, I’m in a long-term relationship with my loving partner, and everything is good, except for the matters of sex. Suffice it to say, one partner (male) has a very overwhelming sexual drive, while the other (female) needs sex like once a month (and it has always been so throughout life). Partners are monogamous and do not explore options of having a third party.

Can any good advice be derived for such cases? Is there something that can be done to improve things on each side? I would love to hear your advice.

  • Glorp@lemmynsfw.com
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    21 days ago

    One thing to investigate is getting both of your hormones checked. Identifying and treating issues like thyroid, low or high testosterone, low or high estradiol/progesterone, etc. While it hasn’t completely aligned the mismatch it has been an overall improvement and helped give perspective. Granted, it might turn out you’re both just the way you are.