Being a chaser, as far as I understand, is objectifying. Treating a trans woman as a womans body with a penis and not a woman who happens to have a penis. It’s about caring more about their genitals and body than them being a person.

Just like in the world of hooking up, the line between objectifying and just being direct about the reason you are there can be confusing.

If you respect trans women as women and not as a body type then I think you are okay. If you think of trans women as only applicable for sex, then you are not okay.

I agree with you, but I think it’s important to understand when such laws might be relevant, especially when it comes to unconscious/under the influence. I think that the law needs to be a bit over protective of the passive person, it just needs to be very clear that the law is to be upheld by it’s intent and not by it’s literal definition.

For example maybe a couple X and Y has an agreement on sleep sex, but X decides to abuse it. let’s say they had a fight and person X invited Y to have sex, but Y declined, so person X waits for Y to fall asleep, and then has sex with them. If a week ago they agreed on sex while sleeping, it is still obvious that X abused their verbal agreement to rape Y. So if the law doesn’t protect against that situation it is a problem.

Like a lot of laws, the important thing is to follow the intent and not the written definition, but corruption usually finds loopholes.

Always boop the nose first!

Then the hair! 🤩 it is magnificent, and not just the hair on you head!

So pretty I’m jealous 😬😍

Since Signal now has usernames and supports group video calls, that is also an options. But it’s not really meant to be a cam session, so might not be great for that.

I just don’t think that for me it’s possible to trust anyone in that way. Not as in I don’t trust them, but rather my instincts can’t be ignored 😅

I think I might be into it, but watching it is kind of scary 😅

I would be into trying it, but I think only if I knew that I could physically get out if I truly wanted to 😅

Knowing that I am 100% in someone else’s hands is something that goes against my most basic instincts 😅

Is trannies a slur?

I thought it was short for transgender

Apparently so! https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tranny

Good to know! Never used it but now I know not to!

@cumztonight@lemmynsfw.com maybe change the title?

Not the fish! They get free food and a show! 🤩

That definition seems confusing and wrong. Isn’t it just rape play?

Because the wiki definition makes it sound like you revoke your ability to refuse, which makes no sense, like that can’t end in anything good, it’s basically invalidating safe words 😅

Good to know 😵

But not from canada, also I doubt Lemmy is on the radar right now 😅

It is! But there aren’t a lot of places to do that in a safe and respectful way that aren’t orgies 😅

With non-consenting people that is messed up. Without anyone, I hope you kept the bus clean 🤣

Sleeping partner (consensual) I just assumed they would wake up and it will turn into more regular sex but at some point I realized that I can basically do to them whatever I want and they just wouldn’t wake up. It made me feel like it’s rape 😖

Since then I have a rule that if they don’t wake up after a bit, I quit and go to sleep too 😅

Dry anal?? 😵😵😵

Had to look it up, pretty hard to watch 😬

CNC is consensual non-consent, ie fake rape.

I really like it, not sure why. I have done it on a sex beach (unofficial beach where people often fuck) and had people watch, I have also just done it in nature with no intention of being seen, but I got caught a few times 😅

I might look for actual communities where people are okay with it, I don’t want to force me sex life on anyone that doesn’t want to see it 😶

Though in general I think that society has too much issues with sex and nudity. I personally don’t think that people making out and people fucking is any different and that both should be considered acceptable under certain circumstances (like I wouldn’t people fucking on the public bus, but in nature? Why not?)

Hot as always 😘

P. S

You should know that censoring videos with pixelization is not secure and can be easily uncensored!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=acKYYwcxpGk

Nudism has no more sexualization than clothed societies, which to say someone is always going to sexualize you but that does not make it okay or wanted. A nudist event is no different than a regular event, it absolutely does not have any sexual aspect just because people are naked. 😤

Yeah but these fake stories drive people out as well…