Like last night I had a dream about eating pussy. And a few days ago I had a dream about anal. And so on. I have vivid dreams and also often get sleep paralysis, but usually I lucid dream it away. Interestingly my lucid dreams are non-sexual usually. And it doesn’t seem to matter whether or not I jerk off before going to bed, it’s still the same likelihood of getting a sexual dream.
Do people with active sex lives get less sexual dreams I wonder?
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what’s interesting is that my sexual dreams are always made up people. This is in spite of the fact that I personally have a big crush/infatuation problem.
I have a recurring one. My GF and I are watching some movie with one of her girl friends. Having a few drinks. Nothing sexual about it. We do this in real life often. But in the dream the girls start discussing cocks. The dream never makes it clear as to how it comes up. They wind up their discussion of cock with the friend asking my GF if it would OK to look at my cock. My GF takes control and says “sure” as I sit there stunned she comes over to me and pulls down my pants and my cock starts getting hard. As if I were a science class experiment my GF is explaining all the wonderful things about my penis. She tells her friend “don’t be shy, you can touch it”. As things move along her friend winds up sucking me off. My GF suggests that we all get naked. My hard on is raging. As this is going on I do not say one word. The wrap up is my GF says “you can fuck him, I don’t mind and I know it’s been a long while since you last got fucked.” The friend sits on me and after a few minutes I have her on her back and plow her hard. My GF has the biggest smile as her friend starts a steady stream of “dirty talk” as she encourages me to fuck her good. Then the dream ends before I cum.
whack, I never get reoccurring dreams. They’re always unique. I can only remember one instance where I revisited the same location as a previous dream, and even then it was still a different dream.
I did get more sex dreams when I was more frustrated, now I’d say it’s once every couple of weeks or so.
Lucid dreams much less frequently now that I am sleeping better, unfortunate side effect.
what made you less frustrated?
Sex every day. Found a guy who could keep up with me.
I usually cockblock myself in my dreams, telling the woman maybe later. Then I wake up and regret it.
I’m dealing with nightmares and got sexual nightmares sometimes 😭 But recently I also had two nightmares with two non-negative sexual occurrences.
That sounds dreadful. I’ve never had a sex nightmare, but my nightmares are funny, they start with the fear then my mind tries to build something to justify it. Sometimes so obviously & clumsily I get lucid or wake up.
I hope next time you can sex your way right out of the fear.
Glad you didn’t. And I’m also glad your nightmares aren’t that bad. Can’t say this about myself sadly, but it’s off-topic anyway.
Thank you ❤️
sexual nightmares? like rape dreams?
Luckily not. It’s more about things going wrong, discomfort, circumstances I wouldn’t want to be in, etc. (Don’t want to go into detail about that).
Question for OP - when you have them are they about people you know in real life or just someone you make up
never real people despite the fact that I have really obsessive crushes
Nah, never fucked so much in my life than the last months and still having a lot of dreams depending on how much I’m horny before getting to sleep
Before I was having sex regularly I’d have sex dreams a couple times a week, now I have sex dreams maybe once a month.
Constantly.
Mix of real people and made up, wide variety if types of sex dreams, but all enjoyed.
I can’t remember the last time I had one. It would usually be random and unexpected.
When I was younger I had them quite often. But now, as an adult in my late twenties, I can’t recall the last time I had one
Never happens. Would be nice to have.
About every 10 minutes.
Day dreams count, right?
Infrequently, but not never? Maybe once every six months or so, possibly yearly. I used to have more, but I remember my dreams less these days so can’t be certain its tailed off as much as I think.
