• Pika@rekabu.ru
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    I’m actually waiting for male birth control pills so bad

    They would give men more agency on reproduction, aside from vasectomy, which is permanent, and condoms, which can rip or be intentionally poked.

    Also, they can be used in couples where a woman is hesitant to take pills herself, either out of reproductive concerns (fear that pills would make them permanently sterile), or the overall influence of hormones on the body and the menstrual cycle.

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    Not really…

    On the biological level it is trying to stop millions of sperm-cells to sneak in or prevent one egg-cell from being available. In the numbers game it is less risky and more reliable to make the one cell unavailable then to try to prevent the millions from being viable. Even if you shut 99.99% of them down, you still have more risk than having 99.99% chance of preventing the one cell being available.

    I’m afraid that however we want the world to be equal for man and women, the biology itself is unfair and needs a lot more time and research if you want to equalize that.

    Or use the tie-off snipsnip solution. It is a bit more permanent, but is pretty reliable in preventing.

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    I’ve never wanted children and got a vasectomy in my early 30s. I think a lot of men don’t do this because they have this cartoonish belief that it makes them less of a man to shoot blanks or the erroneous belief that they’re family lineage is so god damned important that they’re obligated to continue it.

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    Alright men here’s what we do:

    1: Once you had your kid(s), if you want to have them someday, get snipped. It’s no big deal and you’ll both be A LOT more relaxed.

    2: Don’t be a fucking rapist.

    Why tf are we talking about the pills thing.

  • REDACTED@infosec.pub
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    5 days ago

    How does this unscientific instagram vomit has 500 votes on lemmy? Are we turning into reddit?

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    The funny thing is, we have the options. It is a matter of choosing to use them. More options always better, solutions already exist.

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    I’m pretty sure the birth control pill is for women because that was easy to do. A pill for men has been tried several times and they still don’t exist yet.

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    Nah, this isn’t a great point at all… even at face value really.

    Put slightly differently, if we’re assuming people sleep around as much as the text implies, if we focus on birth control solely for men, then one ‘failure’/non-controlled man would result in a ton of pregnancies. If the onus is on women, then one ‘failure’/non-controlled woman would result in one pregnancy.