Do I think my lack of interest in masturbation makes it hard to get off? Yes, absolutely.
More successful masturbation isn’t really what I’m looking for though, like I can do it just fine but it’s wildly unfulfilling, takes some prep, and just makes me feel dull and empty. I’m more interested in a dynamic with another living soul that I find attractive and thinks I’m attractive.
Are/were you on HRT?
Yeah but hrt has nothing to do with it, can cum just fine, masturbation just doesn’t get me off / turn me on.
I see, but you don’t think that that could itself contribute to the lack of stimulation from it? Honestly just asking.
Do I think my lack of interest in masturbation makes it hard to get off? Yes, absolutely.
More successful masturbation isn’t really what I’m looking for though, like I can do it just fine but it’s wildly unfulfilling, takes some prep, and just makes me feel dull and empty. I’m more interested in a dynamic with another living soul that I find attractive and thinks I’m attractive.
Yeah did you have a dip in horniness a few weeks/months after starting HRT and after that you had this issue
Nope. Libido was on the floor before, functionally asexual, post hrt my libido went through the roof. 7 years later it’s still sky high.
“This issue” is a dirth of positive social encounters, not my libido.