• servobobo@feddit.nl
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    2 years ago

    “Economic fatigue” nice newspeak for being piss-poor as a consequence of legislative failure to curtail wage theft over the past few decades.

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    What are they to do?
    Shrinking discretionary budget, more and more responsibilities at work (multiple roles condensed into one), and a looming sense you are easily replaceable with layoffs and AI tools.
    On the other, if you are taught your only worth is your job, there is no point in exploring outside of that, and spending your energy on things that won’t make you a good worker.

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    I love how I’ve been seeing more and more of these articles, and in ways they seem accusatory of GenZ/Millenials for not consuming.

    I’d like to believe that just as much of folks not going out is them realizing from the pandemic that they don’t need to do it to be happy, as it is that they don’t have the money to go out. Just don’t do it. Have a close group of friends you enjoy. Don’t shell out money to poison your mind/body. There can be an upside to this.

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      2 years ago

      The 80s and 90s made me believe that a bar was where you met friends, and frequent attendance was important. But when I actually worked at a bar, holy shit. The regulars were sad drunks.

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        I love bars, and they are often a place I go to meet friends. But I probably drove there so I can’t exactly get drunk. Besides, who can afford those bar tabs on the regular. I’m going to be nursing those drinks for a while.

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      But I’m also finding a resistance to friends going to visit each other. You don’t have to spend money to see people, but it seems like even the effort to see people isn’t happening.

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        That’s a good point. I have found that post-pandemic people seem to also be a lot more accustomed to canceling last minute. I almost have more success having semi-large work gatherings than small friend ones.

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        2 years ago

        I found out everyone I knew was not worth it (for multiple reasons), I might suffer loneliness but it’s better than being with people that don’t care if I’m dead or alive.

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          I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you do form a connection with someone who does wanna check in.

          I’m old and my friends live all over the country. I send them 2-3 messages a year. Good friends imo.

          I think cultural norms try to frame friendship as this magical connection. But really it’s a super nice person you met one time and now send Christmas cards and say hi to.

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    2 years ago

    I’m in bed early, up early, and I don’t go out. That’s been my MO for years now. I like it that way and don’t intend to change it. There’s not much that interests me anymore anyway.

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    2 years ago

    I fall asleep because I’m approaching 40 and basically dead. I’m looking at a THREE FUCKING HUNDRED dollar pillow so my arm doesn’t hurt while I sleep…

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          Haha no just want to share the love. I am super cheap and I splurged on getting a top quality pillow a few years back and it was so worth it. I really wish I’d done it sooner.

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            Curious to know the brand, if you wouldn’t mind sharing. I lift weights five days a week and would definitely benefit from pillows that help with muscle pain.

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            :D yeah just making a joke. I am currently trying to convince my wife that we should get expensive feather down pillows. A hotel we stayed in had them and the comfort was amazing!

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        Ugh don’t tell me this!!!

        It’s it really as good as it looks? I feel like I’m being scammed but I spend hours playing pillow fort at night.

        It looks so stupid but I’m my head I’m like… That is what I need.

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          My wife uses one and it has helped her sleep better immensely. Anecdotal, but probably worth a shot.

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    I don’t think they are missing very much. Staying out late to “party” has always been overrated. It made a little more sense as a form of entertainment decades ago. These days you can be entertained in a variety of ways. As for social mixing, playing sports, table top games with friends, or volunteering are much more fulfilling activities than late night clubbing. Ryan George has a funny video about how awful nightclubs are.

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    I have a library a few blocks from my building and my bed is comfy and well-suited to reading.

    That’s my excuse.

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    (Paywall, can’t read – but) I spend over 8 hours per day working before I have time for cooking, shopping, cleaning etc. It’s around 9pm when my life begins. Who has time to sleep early?

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      Some say it’s a matter of attitude, of seeing all of your day aa YOUR life.

      Would love to know how to have that attitude…

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    When I was their age we partied all night long and making capitalism successful!