• Polar@lemmy.ca
    12·
    2 years ago

    Punch her in the face. Like slapping I could work up to, but she wanted me to punch her. Give her a black eye.

  • agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
    10·
    2 years ago

    Asked me to drug her at a bar and then take her home. I’m fine with CNC, but not out in public where no one else knows that first C is there.

  • Neeka@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    122·
    2 years ago

    Renegotiating consent when spaced and horny.

    We planned and negotiated for a session, strictly no genital involvement agreed. When shit got intense, hot and heavy, they were very very angry with me not penising them.

    Good discussions on informed enthusiastic consent were had.

    • tws@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
      2·
      2 years ago

      I had a parallel experience, renegotiating consent using their dominant position to define boundaries.

      Nope nope nope, not how this is supposed to work.

    • Chickenstalker@lemmy.world
      2·
      2 years ago

      You: Sorry, Sir. As per our contract dated 14th August, 2023, paragraph 3, section 2 (b) and I quote “…no Penising, not even the tip, shall be allowed after 19.99 minutes of vigorous sex acts”. The time is now 19.995 minutes. I must advise you of the penalty clauses as listed in the Appendices I, II and IV should you persist in breaking our prior agreement. Good day, Sir!

          • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.eeEnglish
            51·
            2 years ago

            The question addressed “kinky fucks”, it never said “talk about a time you were in the process of being kinky”. That’s what I was going by, that and the interpretation that “kinky fucks” referred to people who got out of a situation that involved a sexual encounter. You know, like how on AskReddit people often stylize who they’re addressing.

            Jesus, did people just think the “remember the human” rule from Reddit was worth doing away with when migrating to Lemmy?

    • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.eeEnglish
      21·
      2 years ago

      Forget it, I’m removing what I said here if peoples’ norms are so needy that they can’t be sensitive to an anecdote about violation on a post that clearly asks people what they did not consent to. I screenshotted the answer and will give the screenshot to anyone who asks. This place is like the new Imgur.

        • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.eeEnglish
          2·
          2 years ago

          Basically the middle part of the anecdote I explained here, as I had no way of knowing OP here (who hasn’t stepped in) was talking only about things we noped to in the context of seeking out kinky activities (despite not fully specifying that) and/or exclusively by people who are kinky in the specific sense that they do that for a living. When I read the title, I read it in the stylized way you might on AskReddit (maybe don’t start off a question with “kinky fucks”) which I also had come from and didn’t expect so much sidestepping for such a thing opened up about (Rectalingus? Really?).

    • glimse@lemmy.world
      231·
      2 years ago

      Female sex havers of lemmy, what’s something a sweaty, overweight sysadmin could do to make you date him?

    • CmdrShepard@lemmy.oneEnglish
      3·
      2 years ago

      Oh wow a community specifically designed to be an exact copy of a specific subreddit has similar things posted to it? This is blowing my mind.

    • David Lee Goth@lemm.ee
      2·
      2 years ago

      When you see a thread that you don’t want to participate in, move the right thumb upward in a flicking motion