All the DIY solutions I’ve figured out have been… inferior to a degree that it just wouldn’t satisfy the itch. Cosplaying chastity, essentially. I just lack the tooling to really make what I want, which is frustrating in all the wrong ways.
I can see how that would rub you the wrong way, and not in a good way. Maybe for now just notching up some additional punishment for each time you touch yourself in your box, until you can live out your chastity dreams properly.
Hygiene is the problem with all these, male or female.
But there’s ways to make it work. Previous relationships I got handcuffed in the shower before recaged. Escape is quite difficult thanks to some piercings, etc.
It’s fun, but the trickiest part was dealing with how much more powerful all your emotions get. I’m experimenting with being on the other side of the slash, so there’s plenty to learn and I’m excited for it.
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All the DIY solutions I’ve figured out have been… inferior to a degree that it just wouldn’t satisfy the itch. Cosplaying chastity, essentially. I just lack the tooling to really make what I want, which is frustrating in all the wrong ways.
I can see how that would rub you the wrong way, and not in a good way. Maybe for now just notching up some additional punishment for each time you touch yourself in your box, until you can live out your chastity dreams properly.
Hygiene is the problem with all these, male or female.
But there’s ways to make it work. Previous relationships I got handcuffed in the shower before recaged. Escape is quite difficult thanks to some piercings, etc.
It’s fun, but the trickiest part was dealing with how much more powerful all your emotions get. I’m experimenting with being on the other side of the slash, so there’s plenty to learn and I’m excited for it.