“My dog is terrified of men”
And OP’s “They know!”
As if it was a given to be terrified by half of the world population, and that you could just lump 4 billion people together and call them all dangerous.
“My dog is terrified of men”
And OP’s “They know!”
As if it was a given to be terrified by half of the world population, and that you could just lump 4 billion people together and call them all dangerous.
So who the hell upvoted this? This is learned, sexist, behaviour, same as how toddlers aren’t racist unless their parents are.
And last I checked, 50% of the LGBTQ community is men.
So again, who the hell upvoted this sexist trash meme?
It’s pathetic that you think my personal utility isn’t also built on the expectations and thoughts of those around me. You disregarding an essential part of life doesn’t make me irrational, in fact it makes me more rational than you, who is only selfishly considering your own personal gain. Your model is simply incomplete, and your wilful ignorance added together with your false sense of superiority is exactly what makes my blood boil.
If I gain something at the behest of needing to bend my head, then I’d rather fucking not gain it in the first place. Screw the fuck out of that mentality.
To put it more simply: if you’re hungry and I bring you sandwich and demand that you eat it, telling me “leave the sandwich, I’ll eat it if I want, but I’m not giving you the satisfaction of knowing or seeing me eat it because of how you approached me” is the smart move.
You’re not fooling anyone if you do it “out of sight” lmao. It’s just bending your head down to someone who thinks that they are in a position of power over you and can lord you around. Fuck that. And fuck the dad for insinuating the son needs to do whatever the hell he wants him to do.
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It isn’t being controlled if you don’t go.
Otherwise you’re being a good little dog who does as he’s told.
Edit: lots of mutts in the comments below.
Absolutely agreed. I’d probably be on no speaking terms with my dad if he pulled that. It shows a complete lack of interest in the son, as he thinks it’s an opportunity issue as opposed to possibly anything else going on. He just wants to dump a shitty solution and call it a day because he “did his parenting job” so that he can absolve himself of anything to do with his son’s lack of a dating life.
If anything I’d bet OP’s upbringing by such toxic and careless parents is what’s causing him to not have found someone yet.
So fuck the dad.
Hell no. Fuck being controlled.
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Not what I’m saying. I’m saying every reaction requires a trigger, an action. Even the GAD is triggered by something, it could be a thought, a physical exercise, introspection, thinking about a future event, any such thing. You can easily pinpoint the sources of anxiety.
Not thinking about those is lazy.
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Saying anxiety is directed at nothing is so stupid. There’s always something to be anxious about, you can rationalize the source of the anxiety really easily, people just don’t like introspection and to think.
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Two more than most of MAGA
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In their brain.
When VPNs are paid to not get fined, and only distributors get fined, don’t blame me for not doing jackshit to contribute.
Your whining is music to my ears.