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  • quickenparalysespunk@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoAutism@lemmy.worldFrequent Lying
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    1 day ago

    people do whatever they have to do to feel safe. there’s no problem with that.

    maybe you deserve more trust and autonomy than your parents are giving you. if the reason for asking your grades is “dad wants a treat”, it sounds like they are asking for their own pleasure, not out of concern for you.

    so maybe it’s a really good thing that you’re lying to them to make space for yourself to feel emotionally safe.

    every one deserves to feel safe, no matter if the feelings of danger are caused by parents or strangers.










  • thanks for informing of that rumor.

    i have to hope for this too, since i am now regretting my choice of Graphene OS+pixel over fairphone.

    however, i am very pessimistic about fairphone’s ability to source a secure SOC that would satisfy the Graphene OS team at a financially/eco’ly sustainable price point. at least within the next five years.

    if GOS updates turn out to be impossible after the android changes, 5 years is a very long time to wait while using a decreasingly secure device.