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Cake day: August 5th, 2023

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  • But it is also good to have the ability to communicate effectively with autistics, yet your framing may contribute to drown that consideration.

    I can see where you’re coming from and I appreciate the constructive criticism. My intention was to convey that difficulties will still be present for many autistic people when communicating despite accommodations, but I do not intend to dismiss existing progress made by advocates to educate neurotypical people about autistic communication.

    (…) and you may be successful at masking with a communication style that doesn’t come natural to you for a day, a week, a month, years - but all of that is extra effort you’re loading on your back for the sake of not coming off as weird (…)

    I find it extremely difficult to fully mask personally and that doing so brings great strain on myself so I avoid doing it as much as possible. It helps that I have recently had the opportunity to be in a supportive environment where I can be fully unmasked without backlash. The possibility of societal acceptance in a wide variety of environments is very foreign to me. I think it’s something I’ll mull over.



  • I’m referring to bigotry that occurs on the same instance regardless of the source. Defederating helps if the bigotry comes from accounts registered on different instances but it doesn’t stop them from making accounts on the same instance to harass people, nor does it stop people who already have accounts on the same instance to start harassing people. This is where moderation comes in.

    Alternatively, some instance admins restrict their registrations to manual approval to limit the possibility of new trouble.






  • I was more interested in the percieved respect, honesty, integrity (e.g. people not nicking your stuff if you drop something somewhere), generally friendly attitudes, tech innovation, appliance design etc.

    I like those aspects of Japanese culture as well but I think it’s always good to be wary of accidentally romanticising a culture as no country is perfect.




  • Disclaimer: Not MTF, just lurking communities/magazines.

    Defederating helps for instances that are exclusively used for bigotry or prominently contains bigoted content but bigotry within your instance should be managed with active moderation. I haven’t explored all of the features on Lemmy and kbin but there may also be features that allow you to curate your experience, which will hopefully reduce the transphobia you receive. Sorry that you had to deal with that on your posts.