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Cake day: July 18th, 2023

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  • Thanks for your comments! Yeah, I identify as trans-feminine, and I enjoy sissy, chastity, cuckoldry, spanking, and beta male fetishes. I can’t comment much now, and I respect your status as creator of IM. I think I was interpreting the M (man) in IM in a sexual sense - ie, if you’re male do you have a penis that can perform intercourse adequately or not, and how gendered you’re dressed doesn’t matter. In your elaboration, IM seems to include a man retaining the typical social and appearance ways of cismen. That’s valid. I regard kinks like a buffet. Take (parts of) what I like, leave the rest. I hope to see more of your work :)



  • Wonderful erotic stuff! I think I liked the parts about how IMs should think, behave, and be treated most. Like how they should always focus on their partner’s sexual pleasure - even masturbation should focus on them servicing a partner.

    As an IM, I’m looking for ways to sustain IM headspace. I think it’s easy for me to focus too much on my vestige when I should be focusing on servicing others and punishing myself for not behaving properly - as a loving reminder of self-acceptance as an IM.

    One suggestion I had was about stimulation during masturbation. Since the IM’s focus should be on servicing others, perhaps their stimulation should be watching their partner masturbate or, even better, their partner sitting on their face, etc. 💕


  • I appreciate your point. I wouldn’t have thought that “small boobs” is offensive or insensitive in the context of calling someone hot, but I realize I’m being swayed by what I find attractive versus by what others might feel when they hear the term, especially those with boobs. I think for me the lesson here is to err on the side of using safe and affirming language when describing culturally sensitive things. The things we learn on lemmynsfw :)