It can still have positive and negative lingering effects but focus on the big picture for a moment

For me:

  • the opposite of having established redundant measures for safety kills. My finances have been improving since I plan for the worst and overestimate my liabillities while underestimating potential inflows
  • BlameThePeacock@lemmy.caEnglish
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    3 days ago

    By failing to get a job that I was the most qualified applicant for, then having a mentor (who was one of the people already in that role) help me understand why I didn’t get it. I was steaming mad. It wasn’t fair, it wasn’t reasonable, but it wasn’t something that I could control either. I could only choose how I dealt with it.