I made a post on Showerthoughts saying if you are a guy and you are a virgin at 22 years old, you are fucked because most women in their 20s have sexual experience, so if you are a 22-year-old guy, a woman who’s 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, or 30 wouldn’t want to date you because they have sexual experience already.

However, I could be wrong, so do some women with sexual experience date a virgin? If so, why?

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    7 days ago

    so do some women with sexual experience date a virgin

    This line of thinking would keep you a virgin.

    What I mean by that is quite simple - stop assuming what other people want, and stop assuming that sex is the end-all, be-all of everything.

    I know a guy who lost his virginity in his late 30s, she was in her mid 30s, and she was definitely not a virgin. And just to be clear, his being a virgin in his 30s had more to do with shutting himself off from possibilities than anything else. He stopped going out for a long time, assuming it was pointless.

    When he started to go out more for his hobbies, he ended up becoming friendly with a woman who asked him out after a few weeks.

    Just do things, enjoy life, meet people. Don’t worry about sexual experience so much.