Wife-sharing seems to have cuckolding almost as a co-requisite. I seek to share and swap my partner as a Dominant kink, having her do kinky stuff for my entertainment and because it merely crossed my mind. I’m not into humiliation, nor is my partner. Yet it seems difficult to find share/swap dynamics without the cuckold aspect.
For those with swap and share kinks, how many find the humiliation aspect appealing or unappealing? And our particular flavor can’t be all that rare, right? Non-cuckold sharing folk, let’s see a show of hands!
I don’t think this is a minority opinion persay, maybe just one in Lemmy tho? If there’s no humiliation involved it’s just called a “hotwife” kink, where you like your wife being shared/being w other people. I definitely enjoy fantasizing about this kink (never done it), but fully agree w you that the humiliation aspect just isn’t appealing to me. Hotwifing is fun to think about bc I’d love putting on a show for my bf, the man I’m with, and I would love to see my bf just sitting back and enjoying the whole thing. He loves knowing I’m having fun/feeling good so it would be a win for everyone (: