Divorced, single mum, white collar professional

I’ll answer any interesting queries you may have.

  • StrangeBedfellow@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago
    1. Has your sex drive increased, decreased or stayed the same as you have aged?
    2. When you feel horny, does this (a) manifest itself in any physiological way, and (b) show exteriorly vis-a-vis others?
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      1. That’s a difficult question to answer. I wouldn’t say that my desire for sex and intimacy has changed but the type of desire probably has significantly. If my sex life at aged 44 was the same as it was at 14, 24 or 34 it would indicate a problem.

      2. Do you mean erect nipples or vaginal discharge? Then yes I suppose forensically it does but I’m not in the habit of flashing my crotch.

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        2 months ago

        Hahaha, thank you for the answers! My first question stems more from my curiosity of how people see their own sexuality and drive over time. It isn’t something that tends to come up in casual conversation in either my professional or personal circles. The second one could be other signs that you perceive as being indicative of your state of arousal, e.g. playing with your hair, wetting your lips or other visual cues, arching your back or assuming a specific posture, and not specifically adopting the “primate ready for mating” position 🤣