AuADHD Pansexual Homelabbing Transfem Guitarist :3

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Cake day: October 17th, 2025

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  • Anything time-based. Fuck voicemail, I don’t have time to listen to the slow voice read everything out, give me a ui and words and let me read at 700wpm. Even shit like power buttons make me mad. I’m always doing stuff, I can’t dedicate 2 seconds to turning on my headphones because I’m using that hand for something else, like carrying food or opening something. The only bottleneck for how fast I can do something should be me. Bring back switches!



  • "You’re absolutely right! Its completely understandable that you’d question your doctor on their diagnosis. This isn’t just a headache, this is a terminal brain cancer. It’s hard to admit, but doing that is the first step in recovery - and that’s growth.

    Let me know if you need help finding the most expensive hospital possible."








  • Thanks a lot for the advice. Sounds like you went through some tough shit, but I’m glad you made it out. I can’t wait to put some of this to use!

    Edit to add:

    I know my time with my conservative friend is limited. I have an older trans sibling, and their plan is to slowly cut ties as they move out, and in planning on following suit. For what it’s worth, they’re still somewhat decent people, but I’ve realized I can’t have family that would want me dead.

    Also, thanks for the response in general. This whole thing is terrifying to me rn, and being accepted like this is helping a lot. Super glad you’ve handled it well, I hope I can too.


  • Hello and congrats! I have recently discovered that I’m a woman, and am curious about surgery and transitioning as a whole, so I have a lot of questions:

    1. How has transitioning as a whole been for you? Getting on hormones, wardrobe changes, socially, etc? I’m only out to my close friend circle, but already know my close family is cool with trans people.

    2. If you have any conservative/anti-trans people in your life, how have relationships been with them since you started? Have you cut ties, or hidden your transition, or anything else? I have some bigoted family that are otherwise decent people and that I’d like to stay connected with (for now, at least).

    3. How was surgery as a whole? What was pre-op like, any things you didn’t like about it, things you had to compromise on, etc? I’ve never had surgery in the first place, so this would be extremely foreign to me.

    4. If you don’t mind, what was dysmorphia like for you? I’ve wondered for a while before now what it’d be like to be a girl, and have especially felt it in the genital area. And on the occasion I’ve been “misgendered,” I always felt really good about it.

    5. How have you learned to do feminine stuff? Like chest measurements, makeup/nails, other clothes stuff, etc? Just researching online, or do you ask cis friends, or something else?

    6. Are you doing any voice training? If so, anything you can recommend to help? I have a lower voice and a small range, so anything helps.

    7. Any resources you can recommend me on this? Where to learn about treatment, advice on how to do this stuff?

    Again, I’m still extremely new to this space (and social anxiety’s a bastard in this context), so any advice is much appreciated.